Dear Lluvia:

You wrote: “my mother does not approve of our relationship because of the times that either one of us has ran away”-

-but she ran away too. In your previous thread last year you wrote: “When I was 2-3 my mother abandoned me .. and I didn’t have a relationship with her again until I was 7-8”

This is heavy duty running, a mother running away/ abandoning her small child for five whole years.

Did she ever deal with her own running away, sincerely apologize to you, made amends to you, or tried to… ? Maybe if she did, if she dealt with the running away of a mother from her own young child, she would be more forgiving of your boyfriend, a young man, running away from you at times, as you did your own running away from him.

anita