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Inky
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Hi Luke,

People aren’t perfect. I wish we were. Your wife could have told you her preferences before you got married. Your dad could have kept his paramour in line (blackmail??). Your dad could have been stone sober at that party. Your dad could have locked his computer down or kept it clean so your Mum wouldn’t have found this crap. Your dad could have looked at the therapy with your mom as a GIFT, as she could easily say, “I’m Done” after thirty years of marriage!

As a daughter of a clumsy cheater I suggest doing the Christmas thing as per usual. Your dad knows you are disappointed in him. That is punishment in and of itself. If I had an affair and my kids found out I’d be mortified. Mortified off the planet. You’ll be giving the gift of some semblance of normalcy to your sister and mom. Let your dad deal with the fallout.

Best,

Inky

  • This reply was modified 5 years ago by Inky.