Dear Nekoshema:

If you want to spend time with your mother, if you have a good time with her (when not talking politics), then I hope you have a good time with her. Having to be somewhat careful about what you say so that she doesn’t feel bad, that is something we all need to pay attention to. For as long as we don’t get mistreated or disrespected, it is okay to think before talking with almost everyone.

Which brings me to the promotion- think before you talk, and keep a “stiff upper lip” when it is better that you do. On the job think of yourself being your own manager, Nekoshema managing Nekoshima: when to talk, when not to talk, what to say here, what to say there. Take a few deep breaths throughout the day, say encouraging things to yourself, and make that promotion happen. It will be a nice way to start the new year, promoted!

anita