Hi Lealea,
Guys don’t think too deeply about these things. For women though, everything is fraught with meaning.
As long as he doesn’t forget where he put the ring, that’s all that matters. If you move the picture and letter to another location it would be admittedly interesting to see if he ever notices or what his reaction would be.
There is a box of moldy pictures and letters from my husband’s ex’s in our basement. Mine are covered in bat dung in the attic. That’s how we solved that one.
Best,
Inky
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