Dear Kaouther:

What is clear to me is that you need a boyfriend in real life and that he is not able to be your boyfriend in real life. He is not able because he told you that “he can’t afford a life for us because of long distance”, even if he had a job. In addition to that, he doubts his ability to have a solid real life relationship with you because of “his failed relationships in the past”.

Because you “don’t have friends but him” and because you feel love for him, I imagine that you will continue to communicate with him online. I suggest that you look for opportunities to make another friend, maybe a few friends and maybe a boyfriend, in real life, while you continue to communicate with him as a friend only.

Can you make friends/get an decent boyfriend in real life?

anita