Dear blkhwkdwn1:

So you and her were on the phone at 10PM Sunday night and met Monday for a few hours at a coffee shop. She talked about energy and crystals helping her body tension of decades, you mentioned a psychic reading she had before. She told you that her boyfriend “came off the honeymoon phase and felt not as close to her” but he feels close to her again, that their relationship is not based on sex, and that she “likes his energy, says it’s exactly like my kind energy and a genuine energy”. And she told you that she is “better at reading people and knowing if they want to talk” to her. She was on the phone a lot messaging clients during the coffee meeting.

You told her: “I feel more nervous energy unless I am at work where I am not nervous”, You asked her about going for a long hike in the summer and she said yes. You asked her regarding bringing her boyfriend to the hike, and she said sure. After the coffee shop you walked home and she went to her car.

In your most recent post you wrote that you took her off your phone, and you “planned this being the last time we hung out, called, text. I am really tired of doing all the work and I  just wanna move on… I don’t wanna continue things.. a repeat of things every time and I will just keep wishing things were different”, and you wrote to me: “if something ever happens I’ll let you know. If not thanks for listening all these years”.

My thoughts and feelings today: I grew attached to your story over the months and years, it is a loss for me to let it go, how interesting, the title of your thread is “Let her go?”, and now I have trouble letting her go!

Of course, I can’t argue with your reasoning, that you don’t want to continue the Repeat of hoping and wishing things were different and it not happening. So I support you whole heartedly in aiming at not suffering, or suffering less.

What an interesting woman she is though, unusual, but then, you are interesting too and unusual too, in an interesting, fascinating way. And this thought right here (the one I just typed) brings me to the suggestion or invitation that you continue to post here (or start a new thread) and keep telling your story. I want to read more and more about your story.

But what I want matters way, way less in the context of your thread/s than what you want. So do what is right for you to do. It is hard for me to let go of your thread, really, don’t want to stop typing in here. But I support whatever choice you make, blakhwkdwn1. Wishing you well!!!

anita