February 3, 2020 at 5:06 am #336404
I think that you and I are on the same time zone (you living in BC), so you talked to her on the phone to confirm at about midnight???
anitaFebruary 3, 2020 at 4:48 pm #336492
Naw it was 10PM when we did. Anyway we hung out for a few hours talking at the coffee shop about her, the trip, how her and her man are doing. Asked how her life was growing up, she asked the same after.
We talked about energy, how she wants to learn more about crystals and the tension in her body is getting better and better now after YEARS maybe decades? of lots of tension in her. Talked about her trip how it went, she enjoyed herself, what she did. I asked how her and her man are doing? she said they are doing much better now, he came off the honeymoon phase and felt not as close to her but she stayed on it and was sad thinking things were coming to an end, but they worked through it. Showed me several pics of them together and showed me a pic she felt the most happy ever about being loved, being with her man, all of her friends…asked how they met again what happened and when she left the first time felt like she would never see him again, felt a big loss and many months later they talked on facebook, had a coffee and been together since.
Apparently he felt a MUCH greater loss thinking he wont see her ever again. She likes his kind energy, says it’s exactly like my kind energy and a genuine energy. Also a bunch of other stuff, I told her I wish them both happiness together. Also that maybe that first day we went hiking when she told me about the phychic that told her the reading how perhaps the reading was about this guy? she thinks it was now that I mentioned it.
We head back and I asked how her life was growing up, she asked me the same thing and I walked home and she went to her car and that’s it. Oh I asked if we can do that long hike in the summer and she said yes, I said maybe you could bring your boyfriend? she said sure. Also when I asked about if she could read my energy I said I feel more nervous energy unless I am at work where I am not nervous. Also that her guy is happy to not be in a relationship where it’s based off sex and it can go just by feelings. Told her I think about sex often, she said “yeah that’s normal for guys”, which is true.February 3, 2020 at 4:48 pm #336494
Oh right and she said “I am better at reading people and knowing if they want to talk or not interested in talking to me”. She was on her phone a lot too messaging clients. I guess I now know when she takes a day or a day and a half to respond to me she just doesn’t want to.February 3, 2020 at 5:41 pm #336506
I read your report of the meeting with her with much interest. I will re-read it tomorrow morning and post to you then, in about 12-13 hours from now.
anitaFebruary 3, 2020 at 6:07 pm #336508
Well I am gonna try moving on. She’s off my phone now, if something ever happens I’ll let you know. If not thanks for listening all these years. 🙂 But I planned this being the last time we hung out, called, text. I am really tired of doing all the work and I just wanna move on, it was great seeing her today but I don’t wanna continue things, it’s just gonna be a repeat of things everytime and I will just keep wishing things were different.February 4, 2020 at 5:30 am #336592
So you and her were on the phone at 10PM Sunday night and met Monday for a few hours at a coffee shop. She talked about energy and crystals helping her body tension of decades, you mentioned a psychic reading she had before. She told you that her boyfriend “came off the honeymoon phase and felt not as close to her” but he feels close to her again, that their relationship is not based on sex, and that she “likes his energy, says it’s exactly like my kind energy and a genuine energy”. And she told you that she is “better at reading people and knowing if they want to talk” to her. She was on the phone a lot messaging clients during the coffee meeting.
You told her: “I feel more nervous energy unless I am at work where I am not nervous”, You asked her about going for a long hike in the summer and she said yes. You asked her regarding bringing her boyfriend to the hike, and she said sure. After the coffee shop you walked home and she went to her car.
In your most recent post you wrote that you took her off your phone, and you “planned this being the last time we hung out, called, text. I am really tired of doing all the work and I just wanna move on… I don’t wanna continue things.. a repeat of things every time and I will just keep wishing things were different”, and you wrote to me: “if something ever happens I’ll let you know. If not thanks for listening all these years”.
My thoughts and feelings today: I grew attached to your story over the months and years, it is a loss for me to let it go, how interesting, the title of your thread is “Let her go?”, and now I have trouble letting her go!
Of course, I can’t argue with your reasoning, that you don’t want to continue the Repeat of hoping and wishing things were different and it not happening. So I support you whole heartedly in aiming at not suffering, or suffering less.
What an interesting woman she is though, unusual, but then, you are interesting too and unusual too, in an interesting, fascinating way. And this thought right here (the one I just typed) brings me to the suggestion or invitation that you continue to post here (or start a new thread) and keep telling your story. I want to read more and more about your story.
But what I want matters way, way less in the context of your thread/s than what you want. So do what is right for you to do. It is hard for me to let go of your thread, really, don’t want to stop typing in here. But I support whatever choice you make, blakhwkdwn1. Wishing you well!!!