Yes, its good to give in relationships, but the answer to personal happiness is not that simple. For way too many years, I was the only one giving. I gave way too much and felt used and drained. I finally realized that it was important to give to myself — time, love and respect. Now I make sure my I identify my own needs and that they are met. I am much happier, experience a deep inner peace and can give without expecting something back or feeling resentment.