Dear Tara:

I am “non techy” too, but I re-read your previous thread and you wrote there that you  an him moved to a new apartment September last year and you wrote: “I do see really big changes in him, he is no longer using drugs, he doesn’t party like he used to and seems content with our ‘new’ life together.. However now I feel like I am the one who is holding back, not trusting, causing the toxic fights between us… blow up on him randomly”-

– I don’t know if his progress is still ongoing, is it? If it is, and you are carrying on the distrust from the past, still causing toxic fights  with him, and blowing up on him randomly, then you are now as toxic to him as he was to you. Maybe it is time for you to end this relationship, for your sake and his..?

anita