Dear Pete:

The Regret in your mind is that decision you made at 35, to leave behind a job and career you had, a home you owned, and a pension to be made, and move to a new city “for a woman”.

I have a few questions, if I may:

1. What kind of job/ career did you leave behind at 35; was is a career you liked very much?

2. What was your state of mind and what was the nature of your relationship with the woman you moved for,  at 35?

-how did “a death of a child” factor into that decision, was it a child you had with that woman before you moved to live with her?

3. “From the moment I made (the decision to move at 35) I knew it was wrong but could not change it and go back”- why couldn’t you leave her and move back?

* I will soon be away from the computer for about 12 hours.

anita