Dear Serkan:

I worked very hard trying to adequately understand your recent post and the ones before, but I  failed. I know that you are not fluent in English, and I can tell that you didn’t put much time into your posts. It seems like you rushed through your posts, compromising clarity and order, so the result is a disorganized, confusing writing.

It is possible that in addition to the language problem, you have a communication disability of some type. I am not a professional, therefore I suggest that you see one.  You wrote: “I never went to a psychologist, I am thinking now”- see one and find out if perhaps you have a difficulty/ disability that may be responsible for you not having had a relationship with a woman so far, in your 28 years, and for having all the miscommunication that you did have with this one woman that your thread is about.

I am unable to offer you anything else. I hope you see a psychologist/ psychotherapist, and whatever professional is relevant to your difficulties. Maybe with guidance and specialized teaching, you will improve your communication skills and relationships.

anita