Dear lannawannabe:

“All I can hope is my future partners will be more serious about me”- they won’t be your partners unless they are serious about you: a man will have to be serious first, and for some time, before he gets the privilege of being intimate with you, I say!

“I feel really embarrassed by how desperate and crazy I must have seemed to him”- does it really matter how he saw or sees you? There are so many other people in the world, so many people you will meet;  why worry about what one person thinks about you.

I understand that it feels to you that it matters, but it doesn’t really matter, does it?

anita