Dear YI:

Yes, I am in a good place right now, I no longer experience that object inconsistency (seeing the individual in a totally different way, in a very short time). I believe  it is so because my anxiety lessened significantly, and I understand how the brain operates way more, so I no longer view myself as a freak, but as a human not different than the rest of the human species.

Regarding you watching so many TED talks “on how to fall back in love”- that’s not a good idea. You can’t force your feelings;  you achieve the opposite when you do that!

anita

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