Dear Lisa:

“please try and reply to every point you can, because each point is a point I’ve been harping on for a while”- I already did, in the four pages of your thread. You didn’t bring up anything new today, May 14.

The two of you broke up May 5: the two of you agreed that the relationship between you was a strain to the two of you, he told you that night that he didn’t want to be with you (“He says.. he doesn’t want to be with me… he finally told me he was done too”), and the two of you broke up amicably. After the breakup you were happy that the two of you felt a breakup is better (“I’m happy now that we’re mutual on the feelings.. I’m already moved on.. It’s for the better.. I feel like how I felt before I met him.. single and normal.. I just feel like bricks have been removed from my shoulders”).

Nine days later and he is not done, you are not done, and the two of you are back to where you were before, no difference, nothing new, so there is nothing new for me to comment on.

(You are welcome to add something new to your next post: details about your current daily life, your daily experience with your father, etc.)

anita

• This reply was modified 4 years, 7 months ago by .