Thanks for the reply. There is no way she would consider therapy. Even when I bring it up carefully she makes it seem like I’m the strange one or with the problem. I guess I am as to me by now she should have said I love you. My friends who have  seen our relationship always comment we are good together but even they now think that she may have just been enjoying the ride for what it is and not really into the idea of a proper committed future with me. She keeps saying I don’t want to think about it and so forth. I keep going a long and being patient because I do love her and want a future. Have I set myself up for a fall? Anyone else been in this position?