Dear Neverdyed:

You are welcome.

“Your words woke me up more”- it is better to be awake to reality than it is to close our eyes to it. If we close our eyes we bump into things and fall. If we keep  our eyes open we can see where we’re going and choose our way.

“I hope that he’d value my worth”- he values you as a casual date; he doesn’t value you as worthy of a serious relationship. Better you don’t keep waiting and hoping that he values you as more than a casual date. In his brain, he may have the image of you and the term casual date connected, and such brain connections are not likely to change.

I was not valued by people myself, there are currently people who don’t value me, but it doesn’t mean that I am not valuable; it means that a lot of people don’t bother to value other people. See the difference?

anita

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