Dear Tania:

This is what came to my mind during my walk regarding the topic:

1) Bring to your memory what he said to you during the times when he expressed passion for you: maybe he said he likes your hair being smooth or that he likes a certain perfume you had on, a certain soap you used, or that he likes when you talk in a soft voice.. and at a time when you hope for some passion, have your hair smooth (using a particular hair conditioner), use the perfume he likes, etc.

2) Tell him what you told me, that you liked him when he was a hot kisser, and add that he is good at it, and you would like him to do again what he is so good at. (Men usually like to be told that they are good at things, that they do a good job, and it makes them want to get that compliment again).

* Don’t talk a lot on the topic with him, the less talk- the better. Smiling at him approvingly or with appreciation is worth more than a thousand words.

anita