Thanks, Anita.

Yeah. I have no desire to change him or the relationship, but you are totally correct in picking up on my irritation with the lack of respect for my schedule. Sometimes it’s just helpful to hear back from other people what this all sounds like. I’m thinking now that I’m just going to take a break from trying to get together with him. If he happens to contact me when I’m free (which is not that often) and I feel like seeing him, I will, but right now I just find him less attractive becasue of all of this, especially since he has a child himself (without custody though) and should really understand this after a year of us seeing each other.

So of course I don’t really  have to decide anything because I can contact him if I really want to, but I think maybe my energy is better directed to other people I’m seeing, even though I do really enjoy his company. What a shame.

Thanks!

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