Dear Suzanne:

Thank you for your good wishes for me. I am sorry that for you, being 21, the idea of having a sexual relationship with a man in his 40s, or worse, a man in his 50s.. or even worse, a man who is 60, is “kind of hot”. So sorry because I know, from personal experience, a 32 year difference.. I was 18. The memories of it haunt me to this very day. It wasn’t “kind of hot”, it was disgusting and obscene. It was a tragedy. So many, many older men take advantage of very young women, women with.. issues.

Best wishes to you, may you get over what you call “daddy issues”, and get to the real issues.

anita