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August 25, 2020 at 5:27 am
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MayaParticipant
He provided such inconsistent love–a mix of trying his best and nonperformance (complete distance which was such a relief for him). Meanwhile, the inconsistency caused me to attach so much harder, wanting to find any crumbs of his love. I’m not secure and I need to work on myself. It’s both our faults and not at the same time. We just have a lot of things we need to work on.
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