Dear Katie:

I like your therapist! I agree- if I may say so- that he should be allowed to move “into the living room area of the house”- the idea of it angers me. He has to make amends to you in a very serious manner, to ask your forgiveness, to show you his commitment to do right by you, before he is allowed back in.

It is a matter of basic decency- he has hurt a woman who did nothing but love him- if he doesn’t acknowledge it- at the least- it means that he is not a decent person. And why would you allow an indecent man into the living area of your house…?!

anita