Dear nycartist:

You are most welcome.

“I am taking it as a personal failure that I couldn’t make it work.. ‘fix it’.. was my role in my family all my life”.

In your first post, March 8, 2019, you stated your family role: “I was ALWAYS the peacemaker”, always in capital letters suggests to me that you were the peacemaker even before the feud between your mother and uncle started.

How far back (and in what circumstances) before the feud,  do you remember yourself being the peacemaker, the one who fixes it, the one that makes it work?

anita