abortion to being blocked….was I manipulated or am I overreacting

Was I manipulated

hi guys, long story short I ended up getting pregnant by the guy I was with. We went through everything for preparing to get an abortion, appointments, etc. I ended up having a blighted ovum which is from my understanding a type of miscarriage. This guy made me keep all of this a secret from my family, my friends, anyone & everyone. His family is very elite where I’m from & he basically threatened to sue me if I ever spoke about anything to anyone or that if I ever tried to blackmail him he would send my nudes out. All I had was him & my therapist, well he got mad I sent my therapist screenshots of part of a conversation we had during one of my telehealth appointments. He freaked out told me I didn’t have his permission to do that & that it was an invasion of privacy. Had me delete all of our texts, pics etc. then screenshot for proof. He promised he would do the same. He never sent proof. He began telling me things like, if I did this or that it would be good for us and we could move forward & have a clean slate & work towards a healthy friendship. He then tells me the other day that he has started seeing a therapist and she thinks we need to stop talking but before we do that he would let me blow him & that he might even fuck me. Then we could pretend we never knew each other. I realized last night that everything he asked me to do was only for his best interest not mine as well. I confronted him about it last night & about how he basically took advantage of my feelings to ensure protection of his secret about the pregnancy & that I have no real reason to continue protecting him anymore & how easily I could “out” him if I ever wanted to just as easily he could sue me (he’s a lawyer & his dad is as well) I would never exploit him but I was making the point that I care so much about his future that I’ve compromised my own feelings for his wants & needs. He got upset sent me a long message & then blocked me.

He always claimed wanting to move forward but once I address my feelings I get blocked. How do I handle this?

TL;DR- got pregnant, basically forced to keep a secret or get sued if spoken to anyone, feel he manipulated me into protecting his reputation & future I called him out & now I am blocked