Dear Anita,

Understand that the frequency lessening happens naturally, my anxious mind couldn’t accept it as a fact, results in I often dry talk to him even when there is nothing to say, showing my neediness and it leads to him becoming less interested over time. We used to text 12 hours a day, and now the conversation lasted for only 1-2 hour.

While he focusing on his art career, I have my art career to focus on too, but because my mind is always occupied with things related to him, my art progress has been in stagnant state for awhile.. Im trying my best in taking back control of things I focus on and shift focus away from him