Dear JemJem:

You wrote yesterday about having sex with married men: “My judgement is that it is wrong.. I have always been strongly against it”. A day later, in your most recent post, you wrote that if it wasn’t for the fact that your co-worker, who is a married man pursued another co-worker for sex, you wouldn’t want to stop having sex with him.

Do you mean that your judgment has changed, and currently your judgment is that it is okay to have sex with a married man?

anita