Danny your views are also very insightful, you are not saying anything I don’t know deep down in my gut feeling and yes I am a fellow man! Although the way I’ve feel not so much, I’m very well known and liked by people in my area, even so much as people would say to her you’ve got a good one to her if we was out which I hated because I felt it added more pressure.

Honestly I’m aware I’ve been accepting a situation that is not right but love is blind I suppose and I don’t know any better at the moment but I must stress when I started seeing this person I was a mess, I couldn’t even understand why she was attracted to me on the first place due to compatibility etc. M, maybe she just wanted a fling due to her own circumstances but for me it grew into something I wanted more, she still says now there is something between us, probably breadcrumbs but I do feel it hence why I never give up, it’s so out of character I’ve discarded good friends for less, I’ve left it now at non contact and just trying to get on with own my life and goals.

Your words are spot on though, you should consider a role in being a therapist if your ever lost for a career path!