Dear Ryan:

When you move to a big city, try perhaps (?) a taproom for socialization in the afternoons, 1-3 times a week- not a bar, mind you, but an outdoor sitting taproom that serves three drinks only: ciders, beer and wine, one that is open at 2 pm, or 4 pm. In moderation, responsibly, alcohol does wonders when it comes to socializing.

Regarding the quote about core beliefs- our basic, deep rooted core beliefs are all formed in childhood. Some call  our childhood our Formative Years: our brains are formed there, including core beliefs about who we are and who other people are.

anita