Dear Carly:

You are welcome.

You shared about your husband: “He started to show these unexplainable facial expressions that were just… terrifying”- do you mean that he purposefully contorted his face so to appear menacing and scary? If so, in what circumstances did he do that?

You shared: “mom cares a great deal for women’s rights and women’s issues.. her idea of marriage is to endure anything and everything no matter what… she said even if he was hitting me, that’s just what men do when they’re angry, and I need to accept it”-

– do you mean that she used to care a great deal for women’s right but has recently changed her position 180 degrees?

If so, has she expressed extreme changes in her views on other topics, and perhaps in her behaviors recently?

anita