Hi Anita,

Thanks for your reply. Yes I am definitely afraid of marrying the wrong person. My last healthy relationship which I described that ended was because he did not want children and I did. I had to leave him in that scenario.

I found myself feeling so sad and crying all day yesterday. I was so anxious that I messaged him to talk but he said it was not a good idea. Yesterday was so painful and I did NOT expect that.

I had told him I was starting to resent him for ignoring my needs after I expressed them and he said we should break up if I resented him. It had me questioning if I was in the wrong or he was and I was second-guessing my word choice. Like maybe I was rushing him..He said he was doing it for my own good. I felt that insecure part of me after breakups come back.. I thought I had grown since then.

I am feeling better today, although I did feel bad in the morning. Do you have any tips for how I can feel better and truly move on? I think I was attached to him and that’s why this is hard. It’s like I went into that conversation being okay with the thought of a breakup but once it happened, it felt awful and I regretted everything.