These are life lessons or clearing of karma.. Sometimes these situations are subtle, sometimes blunt. However, you are supposed to go through this as part of your life path.
The mind tends to label a situation when there really is no good or bad situations. When we allow the mind to label a situation, we miss the opportunity to learn . A friend I know ripped a tendon in her knee and needs surgery. She sees it at bad. I see this as a wake up call to shake her obese frame and lose weight. To take better care of herself and her knee. She then can avoid future health problems and live a healthier life.
I’ve seen another person go through this vicious cycle of ego and horrible fighting with his ex wife to keep his business. Clearly, the ex wife and the misery is part of the lesson but his perspective enslaves him. If he could see this situation as a learning lesson and move on from the business, there is an abudancy awaiting him on the other side.
We really limit ourselves by our perspective.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 