Hi Anita, Thanks for the response.  The reason he gives for being unavailable is that he rests at home, meets friends, doesn’t wanna spend time on phone. He mentioned staying with a collegue there but I assume it’s a female,  he is living with. Never ever shares a single information about that person.  He visited my home last month but he showed his home on video call after a lot of pressure from me. There might be many things which I am not aware of him but all the times I confronted him, he would say I am good with u. Why do u bother about other stuff