Dear Lily Margarette,

But i see no other option as im financially dependant on him anyway and i wouldnt want to break up my kids home. Theyre having their own issues with school and i dont think they could take the stress of it.

I see your dilemma. It’s not an easy situation, specially since your kids are pretty small. How old are they?

No i mean im not sure how much longer i can stay in a marraige thats fundamentally unhappy.

I think it would help if you’d evaluate your marriage and see how much you can live in a “peaceful cohabitation” with your husband, and is it even possible, without feeling horribly about yourself or him all the time. How is he as a father, as a person (aside from his blindness around his family)? How dysfunctional (or healthy) is your family life at present? I think these are all factors to consider when planning your next steps…