Well, because she wanted the wedding party to go for an entire week and I told her I couldn’t, i agreed to go as a guest just for the weekend because she went crazy talking about now marriage is a “rite of passage” and I was letting her down. I didn’t end up being her bridesmaid at all (thankfully).
I actually did ask my boss for a week off and she just never replied, that is the truth! We sorta smoothed it out and were just polite to each other after this but our friendship never reignited at all.
She got pretty drunk at her wedding anyways and kept telling me she loved me and then I never heard from her again!
She used to be ok, always about herself but she occasionally was empathetic and easy to talk to, we were close. She just blew up at me all of a sudden and then acted this way, I am to this day still baffled.
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