Dear sossi:

You are welcome.  “it becomes physical, this hurt, its damaging.. my workplace colleagues are the source“- then you must protect yourself from the source of hurt and damage, and not be there to be hurt and damaged.

“I want healthy relationships but it seems like I’m asking for the moon.. I worry that if I try to meet someone, I don’t have really all that much to offer..no amazing social circle of happy people, no kids and no fun career“- No need to be able to offer an amazing social circle of happy people, or kids or a fun career to a man. If you can offer an emotionally healthy-enough woman to an emotionally  healthy-enough man… that will be much more than millions of women are offer!

“Someone asked me today what I dreamed of doing and I just couldn’t think of it. I have feelings about what I like.. I’m driven, hardworking , I like to make money…but passions? I feel a bit lost in the money making process…“- how about this passion, this dream: to become more and more emotionally healthy, to offer emotional health to yourself (and to a man)…

anita