Dear Anita,

Thank you so much for the detailed response. it gives me some sort of peace.

i totally agree with you however “No one is perfectly good at all times, but we should strive to improve, to become better.” this sentence you wrote is everything i am struggling with. the thought in my head is that given this statement, him and I are not perfect but he is striving to improve , should that be a game changes? would i be making the wrong decision by not taking this into consideration and giving him a chance ?

best