Hi Lily Margarette,

I think you might be jumping to conclusions in assuming your husband’s friend is rude. For example, I often don’t cite anyone’s spouse or partner in a card or in a text or anything unless I actually have made a personal connection with him/her.  I don’t consider couples to be a singular entity. Perhaps your husband’s friend thinks the same way–you even refer to him as your husband’s friend, not “our” friend.

Perhaps try making more of a connection with him, if you want to be thought of by him. Otherwise, let it go. Who really cares?

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