Dear Lily Margarette:

Taking a break to consider practicality:

“I have two older brothers who I’m still close to and both my parents have been a massive support during this time of my life… I can honestly say hand on heart that I always felt safe and fully loved and supported. I’m not making that up” –

–  Is there any way that your parents or your older brothers can help you by having you and your kids move in with them while you legally separate from your husband (and his family!) and not have to deal with them beyond what will be decreed in a future legal separation/ divorce contract?

I am thinking that feeling “safe and fully loved and supported” again, with your family, you can have the mental space to rebuild your life, best you can and find yourself, so that you no longer feel stuck in a rut and lost.

anita