Dear Anonymous91:

I will try to help you to be less confused. First, I will ask you a couple of questions and when you answer I will reply to you further with suggestion in regard what you can do.

“He says his trying to change his ways saying his always a disappointment to me and his family” –

(1) Did he tell you (and/ or did you ask him) how he’s always been a disappointment to his family?

(2) Did you express to him during the last 1-2 months, in any way, that he is a disappointment to you, for example: that he doesn’t take you out to nice-enough places, or that he was late for a date, anything like that?

anita