Thank you for response. He says his dealing with things at home so when he his with his friends he drinks himself past his point and gets home late but its not every day or weekend then they scold him for that but that’s basically what he mentioned to me, I didn’t mention me being disappointed I just asked him when his going to change his ways, and saying his not ready to make a commitment to me that I need, which I didn’t mention anything to him about, his parents are mad over me and me them, I have a 2 year son and my guy was happy to accept and love him as his own, he parents were fine with that all along and now his giving me that excuse saying his dad can’t get over the fact that I have a child, and when they found out his dad said it’s his choice they can’t say anything and that’s why things at home aren’t pleasant all of sudden, I have a good relationship with his parents do you think I should have a chat to his dad just to ask him about this?