HoneyBlossom

She never got in his phone because they actually met the first time that night.  He had drove to her house to pick her up.  So it was a first date for both of them. So not sure how she knew .  I know most I phones have a feature where you can share your location to the other person or to your friends.  And yes i agree it is stalking either way you look at it.

I am distancing myself from them.  This situation is hard because they are all like family to me since we are or were very close.  She is always there at every family gathering along with her parents and her daughter.