If it could be any consolation, let me share my story. I was raped under the promise of marriage so brutally that I had a miscarriage. I cannot bear children and hence the trauma lasted for 10 years. With the help of anita here, I am quite out of it now and have come to terms to being single and childfree for the rest of my life. While I was battling for my life in the hospital, one nurse told me that “Jesus never lets anyone be LONELY”. I believed her and I am leading a wonderful life now. I followed the golden rule below to come to terms with my life:

Embrace hate – when someone intentionally hurts you saying “other granny”………”don’t try to pretend that they are YOUR grandchildren, because they are not” – just back answer feeling love and nothing but love in your heart. They just want to see tears in your eyes and hence they are teasing you. You have to reply as, “Yes! They may not be my own grandchildren but I still do love them as my own”.