Dear Shve:

Adding to/ editing my sentence from above: “your situation is not that of a guilty daughter vs an innocent father” –

– You are not guilty about what happened, not at all. The man is guilty for what he did, but your father is guilty too because of what he did (he taught you to be submissive) and because of what he did not do (he did not teach you how to detect and protect yourself from the common practice of men seeking to sexually conquer women).

anita