Dear Anna,

I am still thinking about what happened with you and him and that other girl, and one thing is puzzling me: if he dated her since April 17/18, how come she was never with him at various social events that both you and him took part in? For example, you mentioned a ball sometime in the second half of May, where you were ignoring him but then he grabbed your arm to get your attention. How come she wasn’t at that ball? I mean, considering that she was his classmate, I’d assume they’d spend a lot of time together, hang out at the same places, go to the same events…