Dear Sam:

Yes, I too was lost for a very long time. I too had crazy-making neighbors, very loud late into the night and early in the morning, leaving me a very short window of opportunity to rest. I too suffered from a ranting, hateful family member (my mother). The way out- is one step at a time, applying good sense and a measure of optimism. Luck also has a part in it. If you would like to share: what are your health problems, and about how old are you? Anything you choose to add will help me understand better and reply further.

anita