Well I know we did jump into things quickly. Her son is super attached to her and yes there is a lack of boundaries there. He was still sleeping in her bed. I know I made mistakes (we both did) no infidelity or anything but we both enjoyed our drinks on the weekends together and maybe she didn’t want that anymore. But I don’t think that this was a big factor. Maybe a small one. Also, as stated I was a bit needy and wasn’t really getting any of my needs met. But again, I know this is something I can work on. When her mom started living with us I was unhappy but I put up with it and didn’t really voice my feelings and she probably sensed that as well. I don’t know. I know it’s hard having a blended family but she had even said that she would go to marriage counselling before leaving, however that didn’t happen. She’s very independent and I think she just wanted to be a single mom again and not have the responsibility of being a wife as well. I don’t know. All this has left me very confused as I haven’t really had any closure but I’m trying to move on without that.  Again, I want to be hopeful as not a lot of this makes sense except I know that maybe had I stayed things would have become worse. We hold no ill will or bad feelings towards each other and I guess that’s a good thing.