Dear Anita,

Sorry for the confusion.

It’s a good suggestion from your end. Having relationship therapy together.

Before that, I will have to go through a self assessment session with clinical phycologist to understand more about myself like Tee said.

Reason I created this thread was to gather more opinions or experiences.

I wonder if people out there have the same dilemma like me, If choose to stay then they will remove all the “type thing” and just focus and commit a relationship, or a married relationship.

If choose to leave, pursuing what is right for them, how satisficed and fulfilled  they are.

Just out of my curiosity.