Dear Katrine,

I haven’t asked if they have talked to him about me.

But have they promised that they would? I am asking because they told you “we have your back, we will help you out!“. Do you know if they have done anything to actually help you out?

The girl who added pressure kept asking me about him everyday, and saying things like if nothing happens on this first date you move on and forget about him. If it doesn’t happen now it never will you are too different. … she wrote me just before meeting him like tell me how it goes.

It seems that she was very curious about what happens between you two. Was she among those who told you they’ll help you?

My friends thinks he started be coming friends with my friends to come closer to me.

talking about it to my friends who knows him they were shocked that I didn’t pick up on the fact that he wanted me to eat at the restaurant with him.

When you say “my friends”, do you count in the inconsiderate female co-workers too (who used to dance around him when drunk)?

I have started swing other people at work outside of work to get a bigger friend circle that is better for me because I am extremely disappointed about their behaviour.

Good decision! I too think you should hang out less with these co-workers who party and drink a lot, plus, they don’t seem like good friends at all.