Hello Anita,

I’ve never been so grateful for a response in my life. You are the only one to ever explain how I am feeling in a way that completely makes sense and resonates with me and my upbringing.

Every second of every day is spent thinking about him or her and I so wish I could occupy my mind with something else! I’ve tried meditating to quiet my mind but nothing helps, I’ve tried so many things but I guess time is a healer and only time will tell. I’m 27 but I wish to be 37 because at least I know I hopefully will have gotten over this difficult situation and will have hopefully started my own family!

Do you think I should tell the wife what is going on?