Home→Forums→Tough Times→How can i get rid of this overthinking and insecurity?→Reply To: How can i get rid of this overthinking and insecurity?
Dear anita,
congratulations for having these photos taken, a printed memory of … love, lovely!
= thank you anita, i really am grateful of that photos!
nothing you can do about that, but notice that her sister (the girl you are dating) likes your physical appearance, and that is wonderful, isn’t it?
Im not really sure if she likes my appearance or not… i dont really know why she’s interested in me…. Maybe she’s just grateful that i came into her life?
I can put together a list of questions (or you can do it on your own) so that you can prepare your answers ahead of time.
= i’d be happy if you’d like to arrange some few questions… it can be helpful to me…
you told me earlier that you are a follower. Seems like she is a follower too. You know how difficult it is to change in this regard, so please don’t get angry at her for being a follower and don’t demand that she changes.
= This is what im concerned about, she’s a follower and she looks up at her sister… if her sister said something negative about me, that girl might lose interest in me… just like how there are few boys who try to get close to her, but her sister told that girl to not be with those guys as their environment and personality are not too good….
I havent met her sister yet, but i feel like she texts me differently since her sister went back home to our city few days ago… idk if its just my feeling or she really has been different due to her sister…
Or maybe it could be because that everything between two of us are predictable now that both of us know each of our feelings… and everything became more boring than the first month when we interact…
To avoid exhausting my head, i should just think what’s meant to be will be… is it?
seems to me, that her sister approves of your physical looks and of your relationship with her sister; otherwise she wouldn’t send the photos to her friends, don’t you think?
= i dont think so, she could be sending the photos to her friends because she disagrees that her sister is with me… and she wants to discuss it with her friends….