Dear anita,

Before i reply to the threads above,

I just wanted to say i feel that girl is maybe bored of our relationship… Like i can see the difference on our texts before i confess and right now’s situation…. And if she’s bored with our relationship right now, she doesnt do anything at all….

She’s on holiday with her parents these past few days, but still im the only one asking how’s her holiday, but she never asks me…. And she still replies late… i know she still have assignments but still how can it be everyday….

She didnt even tell about her routines on her holiday, i need to ask her then she replies… but then she still didnt ask how is my holiday…

I can see the difference in the chat, she’s really happy at the moment i confess to her that day, her texts are really happy… it’s not like that now… its different…

I dont know if this is her personality or she’s already bored… i also dont want to keep asking her questions that will make her tired of answering… so i just keep it to myself…

but really i’ve done my best… i even plan a surprise for her after holidays… I try my best to make her happy on every occasion we meet…

Few days ago, before i went on holiday… she told me that if we have known for many years… its okay if we have dates without talking to each other, just eating quietly… I tried to trust her words… But right now we just knew each other for 4 months, and she wants to talk quietly already?

I remember she once said, in highschool days she is not sure with her crush then she slowly fades away from him, idk if she’s doing that on me…

Do u still think this is me overthinking things?